Saturday 15 October 2016

Tough Love = True Love

Two days ago, I was training for soccer with a friend who had just recently rejected the Muslim faith and became a Christian. We started talking and I asked him to tell me what had motivated him to become a Christian. I knew that just a few months ago he had refused to come to church and was very defensive about his faith. His story went like this:

My whole family is Muslim, so I grew up with it embedded into me. Every Friday I went to the Muslim call to prayer and I knew the Arabic prayers by heart. I didn’t know what they meant, but I knew them. I got married at a young age and I tried to provide for my family, but jobs were scarce where I lived. I had a brother who owned land near SOS, and so I left my wife and kids at her mom’s house and went to try to start a new life for us. I entered a state of depression. I feared that I would never be able to provide for my family and so I started to drink heavily. Soccer and beer were my way to numb my mind from my problems. A Christian boy who also got saved at SOS invited me to play soccer with him at SOS. So I started playing every evening; that’s where I met the Hurley family. They reached out to me. Elisa invited me to church many times and I told her that I’d come, but I had no true intention of ever joining. I was a Muslim. Alcohol was my way of escape. I would pass out on the side of the road. During that time, no person from my mosque ever came and confronted me about my sinful lifestyle. No one cared enough. But the Hurley’s came to my house all the time telling me that drinking was wrong and I needed to stop. They cared. I started to give Christianity a second thought. I wasn’t satisfied with Islam. One thing that caused me to second guess my beliefs was that the Koran and the Bible’s Old Testament are very similar, but Mohammed is only talked about in the Koran. He is nowhere to be found in the Bible, but Jesus is found in both holy books. That proves Jesus’ superiority. I started to go to youth group, then from there I started attending church. It was exciting! Shannon gave me a job, a house, and brought my family to live with me. The Hurley kids fetched my family water from the bore hole for our first month in our new house. The Christians cared about us. I decided that Christianity must be true, because it is lived out and I can understand it.


If you love someone, you will tell them that they are in sin. My friend’s Muslim friends didn’t love him enough to tell him that what he was doing was wrong. We did. How many times do we care more about our friendships than our friends? Our friends are about to get hurt by sin, but because we care too much about our relationship with them, we do nothing about it. Come on, dear Christians, we need to love people with Biblical love. Jesus loved people, but he called them to repentance. That’s true love. Love that cares more about people than ourselves. Who do you care about that is in sin? Call them out! Love them with Jesus’ love.